So many of us students are involved in serious relationships on campus. What are the consequences and repercussions, if any?

It dawned on me in the fall semester of 2003 when my 10-year “high school sweetheart” relationship was coming to an end. I concluded relationships and school just don’t mix.

Unless, you and your boy/girlfriend have an unbreakable bond that consists of an endless amount of trust, you’ll probably end up miserable or dropping some classes. Two semesters ago I had to seriously re-think my options.

I wasn’t too saddened over the break-up. I learned that after most long-term relationships you have your regrets. And, I regretted swapping time for my studies and relaying those valuable minutes to my “sweetheart”. I guess you could say I swapped time in class for a life-learned-lesson.

The saying “business before pleasure” had to be thought of by someone in a relationship because it fits just about any couple’s situation.
At first, spending more time to gain trust or to just be around the person you love can feel so right. In the end, taking care of business should always take precedence.

You and only you will be marching to the pomp and circumstance come graduation time. Not your boyfriend, girlfriend, or anyone else you share your time with. Set your goals in school and pace yourself in relationships. You’ll feel better if all else fails.